Tuesday, July 26, 2016

We need to talk



FRIENDS YOU NEED TO BREAK UP WITH


Just like with romantic relationships, sometimes you need to move on from friendships when they become toxic. If you have friends like these, it’s time to break up:
The mean girl: Every time you go out to eat she’s rude to the wait staff, and whenever you’re alone she spends the majority of the time bad mouthing mutual friends. This is the friend that will stab you in the back without blinking an eye. You don’t need a mean girl in your life!

  • The friend who only pays attention to you if they need something: This is the friend you see at every get together but she never contacts you directly unless she needs a favor. You don’t have to end the friendship – you just have to stop catering to her needs and wants.

  • The friend who has a way of making you feel less than: True friends should make you feel good about yourself and be your best cheerleader. A friend that doesn’t do that isn’t worth your time!

  • The friend who doesn’t ask about you: Friendships must have give and take. If your friend only takes, you are the one being a friend, not her.

  • The friend who uses you as the butt of her jokes: Teasing is a natural part of close relationships, but if you are getting teased to the point it isn’t fun, and you’ve told your friend but they haven’t changed their behavior – ain’t nobody got time for that!

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